It's an age old question; would you tell your friend if you saw their spouse with someone else? We were discussing it today and I just really wonder how I would react. At first I think, wow I don't want anything to do with that. But then I am not sure how to act "normal".
I guess even a better question is, would I want to know? On one hand I would; but would I believe them over my spouse? So many times the "encounter" isn't a done deal. It's not likely that your going to walk up and see them naked having sex. Usually it's subdtle and could easily be explained.
Also, do you know their relationship? Is it open, and then you look like an ass bringing it up?
What would you do?
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Would you tell?
Thoughts by Reba at 12:54 PM
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I've been in the middle of this issue. I did not tell. I feel like if one of the couple is unfaithful it probably would not be a surprise. I feel connected enough to my husband that I would know if he was sleeping around.
Don't put blinders on in your relationship.
Hi - I just found your blog - you're a great writer! My husband has actually wandered and I wish the hell someone had told me. It was insane finding out that everyone knew but me. Would I tell? That's where it gets tough. I think prob if the cheated on spouse asked me outright, I would tell.
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