Look under the hood...

How important is it to check under the hood, so to speak, before marriage?

I can't imagine marrying my true love only to find out he enjoys jack hammering while pretending I'm not there. Yes, I speak from past experience.

So how important is compatibility in bed? Should your partner know about your sadomasochistic desires before marrying? Is anyone that honest during the courting phase? And perhaps a better question is, should we be?

Whatever you decide; remember to have fun and don't forget your safe word!